The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion.
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You must…
You must never behave as if your life belongs to a man. Your life belongs to you and you alone
Finish…
Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.
Trust…..
Trust your instincts……pay attention to how you feel every time you interact with someone. Do you feel drained, anxious, or depressed? These feelings have come to the surface for a reason – by listening to yourself intuitively, you can determine which people in your life suck your energy dry, and who actually makes you feel alive.
Your intuition speaks to you in many ways, so never ignore any “off” feelings you get, no matter how subtle.
There is…..
There is always, always, always something to be thankful for…
Just…..
Today, just be you. Unashamedly and gloriously you!
Simplify your life…
Simplify your life.
Minimize stress by getting rid of anything superfluous that no longer serves you. This can include toxic relationships, clothing and gadgets in your house you don’t wear or use, your old car that constantly requires repairs, your job that makes you feel miserable, and anything else that causes you anxiety.
Shape your life into something that reflects you and your interests, and eliminate what doesn’t. Most of the time, we put unnecessary stress on ourselves, so choose to end that habit today. Maximize your happiness by reducing your worries.
Pay attention….
Pay attention to everything you say and do to yourself, and start asking yourself if you would replicate those thoughts and actions toward others?
Channel energy….
Channel negative energy into something positive.
Any time you start to feel your thoughts, or other people’s thoughts, drag you down, immediately think of something positive to do or say. If your friend had a bad day, ask him or her what made them smile that day. If you had a bad day, go do something that feels good. Go ride your bike, go for a walk, call a supportive friend, write in your diary, play a song that makes you happy…just do anything but wallow in negative energy.
Everything around us and within us is energy, we just have to learn how to direct it in order to live, not just exist.
Spend…
Spend time in nature at least thirty minutes a day.
It’s impossible to spend time in the sun and not feel those happy vibes radiate through your body. Even if you don’t live in a particularly sunny area, just feeling the wind on your face or breathing in fresh air from trees can help tremendously in treating depression. Most people don’t get have any sort of relationship with nature, which explains why most of us feel so disconnected from ourselves and each other.
Maybe you could take your lunch break outdoors instead of sitting in the staff restaurant or break room at work – get into nature whenever you can; it works wonders in creating peace within the mind and body.