Fear of Being Judged

When you truly live your life, the life you want and not the life others want you to have, there is judgment. It’s true when you take those first steps outside of “the norm” or do something other than what people expect from you.

The truth is people judge when they are uncomfortable with their observations. Just know it has very little to do with you and everything to do with them.

The Fix

While sometimes easier said than done, realise you are enough just as you are. If people are judging you, they are doing so out of their inadequacies. Examine your feelings. If what you are doing feels good, then chances are you on the right track.

Has a success at something caused you to think, “Now What?” Fear of success usually happens when you stay focused on the next step and not necessarily the destination.
Being afraid to pursue opportunities because there is fear around what it might look like is not uncommon. It might mean more responsibility, longer hours and more pressure. Add some self-doubt, and it is not surprising why a fear of success exists.
The Fix
There will always be a learning curve as we continue to grow and develop. Sometimes realising all the things we don’t know can be overwhelming and scary. Start by focusing on the manageable aspects of the success and make a plan to learn new things in small doses.

Fear of Failure

Of course, we all want to succeed but chances are you will fail, more than once before you end up finding success. Fear of failure comes from not realising that failure gives us our greatest lessons. Taking chances and trying new things is how we grow as humans, and it is because we are afraid of making fools of ourselves that we hesitate to take chances.

The Fix
Realise the only one thinking you are making a fool of yourself – is you. Most likely, people are watching you because they are in awe of your bravery.
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” ~Thomas A. Edison

You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go and see what happens…..

The secret method of inviting happiness through many blessings….

Just for today –

Do not anger, do not worry, be humble, be honest in your dealings with people and be compassionate towards youself and others.

Just for today…..

Put yourself FIRST once in a while. It’s not your responsibility to sort other people’s messes…

Notice the people who are happy for your happiness, and sad for your sadness. They’re the ones who deserve special places in your heart.

Life is all about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.
Trust but don’t be deceived.
Be content, but never stop improving yourself.

As you move forward in life, you may need to change your circle of friends. Everyone around you isn’t interested in seeing you improve….

Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life…..